pleasure-positive
sex writing, education
& therapy
My new book, Hot and Unbothered: How to think about, talk about, and have the sex you really want is OUT NOW!
My sex education, therapeutic work, and writing are pleasure-positive. This means that unlike traditional sex ed classes which tend to highlight the negative (STD risk! accidental pregnancy!), my inclusive, consent-based workshops focus on the pleasure-positive (sex toys! finding your g-spot! asking for what you want! practicing consent!). How to get and give sexual pleasure is something we can (and should) learn. On purpose. In a formal setting. With a professional pleasure & consent educator — that’s me!
what i do
My workshops for youth, college students & adults create comfortable spaces to
learn about crucial aspects of empowered sexuality such as pleasure,
communication & consent
My written sexpertise appears regularly in my sex column,
The V-Spot, and in national & local publications including my book!
